After you break up,Don't dive into a serious relationship with the next guy who comes along.

  Actually,there's a much better way.Feel bad about the breakup.Give your feelings room,even though it may be painful because they're the truth.Your feelings for the very next guy probably aren't the truth.They're more likely an escape from the pain you're feeling about your breakup.You have to deal with the pain first before you can move on.
Breakups stink.They hurt.They can make you feel insecure and stupid.They can leave you with the feeling that you'll never be happy again.But guess what?That's normal.
Breakups do pass.They lose sting.They drop their importance.They become what happened then.But only you allow yourself to feel the pain.If you don't,you'll get involved with in appropriate guys,find yourself in the middle of more messy breakups,and get stuck in a never ending cycle of quick,unsatisfying romances.Either you'll hurt a lot of guys along the way,or they'll hurt you.If your stuck on the idea that you have to be with someone even if it's the wrong someone,things are bound to get ugly.
So after breakup give yourself a little time to cry if you need it.Hang out with your girlfriends.Take long,hot baths.then,when you're feeling strong and confident,you can start going out.Try accepting a date here and there.But don't leap into boyfriend-girlfriend status.You need time to see if someone is right for you.Your head and heart might still be so filled with difficult feelings from your breakup that you won't be the best judge to choose your next boyfriend,anyway.
Don't mistake the next guy who's interested as the one.Let each relationship teach you something important about yourself and what you want.You'll know when you find a guy too good to let go.In the meantime,relax and have the fun so that your head will be clear and your heart will be ready.