Don't flirt if you're not really interested

  A lot.
  It seems like innocent flirting,but put yourself in his position.You're crushing on this guy big time,and he's acting like the feeling is mutual.You're waiting for him to make the big move and ask you about,but he never does.
  How do you feel?
   Tricked,deceived,hurt,upset,embarrassed,and angry,to name a few not so nice feelings.And you have every right to feel all those things.
     But think about what happened.Did he actually make you any promises?Not exactly.At least not in words,but his actions seemed to speak volumes.He was probably just flirting with you,which led you to believe he felt mores strongly than he actually did.Maybe he thinks flirting is fun and didn't really think about how you felt.Maybe he did it to feed his ego.
   It's not fair to flirt with someone you're not interested in.In the end,it will only leave the person you're flirting with feeling confused and hurt.
   If you're out with a guy who you think is more interested in you than you are in him,be friendly,but don't flirt.If he reaches for your hand,you might let him take it,but then release it after a short time.If he puts his arm around you,you might let him leave it there briefly so you don't embarrass hi,m,but then move away.If he tries to kiss you good night on the mouth,move your face so that he end s up kissing your cheek.The idea here is to send out the message:"I like you as a friend,but not as a boyfriend."You don't want to abruptly pull away from him-rejection is hard enough-but you don't want to let him know gently that things are never going to go further than the" friends" stage
  Flirting is characterized by the promise of affection and implies that there's an attraction that is not being fully acted on.It's also a voluntary action,which you should take responsibility for.It can be fun to flirt if the feeling is mutual,but if you really don't like a guy,don't act like you do.You wont just be flirting with him.
    You'll be hurting him as well.